Thanks for the posts.
After your replies I think a longer stud, or use a bolt, on the LHS/Rear facing barrel/manifold interface would be better, as the other has plenty of room for a spring washer, flat washer and grip on the nut, but the other leaves little room for this; or maybe the manifold could be modified by grinding down on the LHS - the RHS stud tube is approx 12mm and the other side approx 30mm. Perhaps other people do this already.
The gasket doesn't match well - and this is the third I have tried (from my first re-build, having rejected a few but finding the rest the same) - all were the same shape - no offence at all to suppliers - most people, including mechanics, I have spoken to agree that specs are somewhat arbitrary. I think custom must be the way forward in this case and unsurprising for for a 60+yr old engine design.
I am assuming these are ethanol proof as I am buying them from top-shelf suppliers.
Ideally I would pay to have the barrel inlet port and manifold matched by an engineer. maybe in january when it gets salty.
This is the fit onto the manifold (a standard innocenti marked 175 manifold I have had sleeved to accomodate the jetex) - it leaves a maybe 5mm of gasket on the bottom RHS which can't be clearly seen.

I am only mentioning this as a hopefully positve comment and am not knocking the suppliers at all.
I guess one of the reasons I like lambrettas is because they are not 'one deep' technology, but it took me many hours to change that gasket! my maintainance skills are getting much better, but i'm wary of long runs until I have resolved all of these sort of issues, which I know others have sorted years ago; to break down on a £1.00 gasket is like losing a horseshoe on a joust. The old girl has had a bit of a year of it mechanically wise, most of it down to me learning on the seat.
Spending the time matching the manifold end to the carb should help a lot, it would previously take me ten minutes to get the carb off, and i did notice it was hammered on/off by others - which I'd prefer to avoid at all costs.
Thanks again for your help. This forum has sorted me out a lot. Andrew